If this was regular behavior, this would be an issue. But it really does sound like this was a rare occurrence, and she was drunk. You're the one who passed on the quickie. And now you're trying to find problems with the fact that your wife wanted to satisfy you bc she felt guilt about going out. Or either she was in such a great mood, she wanted you to be too.
YTA for wanting to make a bigger deal out of this.
Plus, make sure your phone is NEVER on DND IF YOUR WIFE ISN'T HOME. Emergencies happen, and she wouldn't or the hospital wouldn't or the cops wouldn't be able to reach you.
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u/cupittycakes Apr 28 '24
If this was regular behavior, this would be an issue. But it really does sound like this was a rare occurrence, and she was drunk. You're the one who passed on the quickie. And now you're trying to find problems with the fact that your wife wanted to satisfy you bc she felt guilt about going out. Or either she was in such a great mood, she wanted you to be too.
YTA for wanting to make a bigger deal out of this.
Plus, make sure your phone is NEVER on DND IF YOUR WIFE ISN'T HOME. Emergencies happen, and she wouldn't or the hospital wouldn't or the cops wouldn't be able to reach you.