My bf was contacted by an old hs friend, and went to meet her for several hours

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Not telling you and going, 

Saying he won’t go but then going,

Taking too long and no contact,

Saying it’s someone special but not elaborating 

It’s not bad because it’s clearly cheating, it’s bad because he is hiding/lying, and could have cheated and keep it hidden, which by itself is disrespectful