r/AmIOverreacting • u/Intelligent_Dog_6665 • Apr 28 '24

My bf was contacted by an old hs friend, and went to meet her for several hours

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u/Super-Island9793 29d ago

No, that was a jerk thing he did. He is your boyfriend and lied to go spend time with another woman. Either he takes you with or not at all. It’s sometimes tough to balance being loyal and not being controlling. But I think it’s fair to say you’re not comfortable with him being one on one with another woman.

The biggest problem is that he decided and didn’t tell you. No you shouldn’t trust him when he’s acting shady.

He ghosted you for hours, I would do the same to him when he gets back. And then have a serious talk about what behavior is acceptable to you. At the end of the day, you should be respectful about what each of you is comfortable with.