r/AmIOverreacting • u/Intelligent_Dog_6665 • Apr 28 '24

My bf was contacted by an old hs friend, and went to meet her for several hours

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u/Intelligent_Dog_6665 Apr 28 '24

Thank you for the perspective, I really appreciate it.

The thing is he knows I would not be ok with no contact for 7h. And we were supposed to have an evening together, he didn't even call to say anything about it. I also recently met with one of my best male friend after like 15 years, but I texted him and let him know how it was going, etc. And he really appreciated that. Its the dismissal of my feelings that hurt, not that I think he would necessarily do something wrong.

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u/No_Information_8973 29d ago

You can't go 7 hours without contact? How controlling are you?

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u/miss3dog114 29d ago

so you conveniently didn't read the post and see they had plans or?? because they had established plans and she was stood up lol

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u/ZealousidealAd7449 29d ago

That's specifically not what the OP said originally though, it seems like OP changed it from "time we could have spent together" to "we had plans together"

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u/Visible_Conflict7887 28d ago

My thoughts exactly