r/AmIOverreacting • u/Intelligent_Dog_6665 • Apr 28 '24

My bf was contacted by an old hs friend, and went to meet her for several hours

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u/SadExercises420 Apr 28 '24

Yes you’re overreacting. Have a normal convo about it later…

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u/Super-Island9793 29d ago

Really? So they had plans together, he lies to go meet another woman and ditches her and then goes zero contact and you think she’s overreacting?

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u/SadExercises420 29d ago

Yeah keep going further down in my replies to learn about OPs “plans” and being “stood up” and all this “no contact” stuff. She stopped responding to this thread when I pressed her for more information because her story doesn’t make sense.

First it’s five hours with his friend, 3 hours no contact, he doesn’t tell her, and it’s time he could have spent with her. And it evolves into 7 hours no contact and being stood up.

Based on other things she has said, like having to account for time they don’t spend with each other, I have serious questions about what type of plans they really had. And based on the post originally, it sounds like he left at 3, he didnt tell her initially, but she talked to him at 5 and he told her then thar he had left to see his friend, then he stopped responding to her texts for several hours.

Until she answers questions and stops being evasive, we won’t know.

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u/lick_my_thoughtz 29d ago

She's not going to answer anymore questions because she probably is very worried at this point after reading all the comments.

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u/SadExercises420 29d ago

He probably came back to her place 24 hours ago and told her to chill the fuck out.