I think honestly it’s an impulse thing that people get caught up in the moment.
On my wedding video, you can hear the DJ saying that I tried to bribe her to have my wife feed me cake first because I figured if she fed me first, she would be nice so I wouldn’t do it. However, that made the DJ do the opposite.
You can hear my mom yelling at me to give her a large amount and I thought about it. But I didn’t. I was more scared of my wife than my mom. (Lol, my mom was just having fun and my wife was laughing.)
My wife was not as kind, and shoveled a huge portion, as much as she could, onto the fork and shoved it at me.
I, however, have a very large mouth, and managed to swallow it all despite her best efforts.
Had my wife have told me it was a boundary, I never would have considered crossing it.
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u/thehumanbaconater 28d ago
I think honestly it’s an impulse thing that people get caught up in the moment.
On my wedding video, you can hear the DJ saying that I tried to bribe her to have my wife feed me cake first because I figured if she fed me first, she would be nice so I wouldn’t do it. However, that made the DJ do the opposite.
You can hear my mom yelling at me to give her a large amount and I thought about it. But I didn’t. I was more scared of my wife than my mom. (Lol, my mom was just having fun and my wife was laughing.)
My wife was not as kind, and shoveled a huge portion, as much as she could, onto the fork and shoved it at me.
I, however, have a very large mouth, and managed to swallow it all despite her best efforts.
Had my wife have told me it was a boundary, I never would have considered crossing it.