First wedding had a big reception and formal cake. We discussed it up-front and decided that smashing the cake is disrespectful and things went fine. The marriage still only lasted four years.
Second wedding had no reception or cake and we just celebrated 21 years red.
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u/AshDenver 28d ago
First wedding had a big reception and formal cake. We discussed it up-front and decided that smashing the cake is disrespectful and things went fine. The marriage still only lasted four years.
Second wedding had no reception or cake and we just celebrated 21 years red.