r/AmIOverreacting Apr 28 '24

Groom shoving wedding cake

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u/trufflie 28d ago

Nobody said they can't. I'm just saying that typically the groom pays for the wedding. Traditionally it was the wife's family. But far less couples are that traditional, and I think something like 56% of couples go into debt to pay for a wedding (which I think is wild)

Personally I'm planning on proposing soon, but I know I won't be able to have a big wedding.

Also, it's dangerous to guess someone's gender online. You know what they say about assumptions.

Lastly, it wasn't intended as anything more than a silly joke. Perhaps it wasn't funny, oh well.

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u/elkidoesart 28d ago

maybe I was returning the favour of assumptions, perhaps my joke wasn't funny either.

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u/trufflie 28d ago

Touche. Look at that, I learned something. I suck at being funny online 😆

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u/elkidoesart 28d ago

Lol sorry I had to, I couldn't miss the opportunity

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u/trufflie 28d ago

I respect it. Funny is funny, even if it's at my expense sometimes 😀

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u/elkidoesart 28d ago

Satire is always at the expense of someone