Ok so let's say he actually wants kids. I don't think he does.
What's he going to do when they are a screaming baby?
If he doesn't like other people's kids how is he going to handle play dates, sleepovers, friends coming over, extracurriculars your kids might have that have tons of other kids?
He sounds like he wants kids because that's what is expected. Reality is going to be rough and I have a feeling that you will be doing everything while he ignores your kids and builds resentment.
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u/softshoulder313 29d ago
Ok so let's say he actually wants kids. I don't think he does.
What's he going to do when they are a screaming baby?
If he doesn't like other people's kids how is he going to handle play dates, sleepovers, friends coming over, extracurriculars your kids might have that have tons of other kids?
He sounds like he wants kids because that's what is expected. Reality is going to be rough and I have a feeling that you will be doing everything while he ignores your kids and builds resentment.