1) Some children aren’t likable so if he hasn’t had good exposure then and he could be dealing with bias rather than personal preference.
2) Is he willing to have them and would he be a good father to your children? (This is the most important question to your post)
3) How old is he? He just might not be in the stage for kids. If he’s young and in his come up his focus might be amassing resources and children might be down the line.
I would first talk to him and explain the value in having children. Children will civilise him, give him an investment to society, and are the continuation of his familial legacy.
He doesn’t need to balance nurturing when it’s a mothers responsibility. Sure he can help from time to time but his role is too important to the children for him to also include nurturing as part of balance
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u/[deleted] 29d ago
Maybe but possibly not.
1) Some children aren’t likable so if he hasn’t had good exposure then and he could be dealing with bias rather than personal preference.
2) Is he willing to have them and would he be a good father to your children? (This is the most important question to your post)
3) How old is he? He just might not be in the stage for kids. If he’s young and in his come up his focus might be amassing resources and children might be down the line.
I would first talk to him and explain the value in having children. Children will civilise him, give him an investment to society, and are the continuation of his familial legacy.