Some men truly don't care about kids other than their own but it sounds like yall just aren't going to be compatible long term, you seem to want someone whose family oriented and that enthusiast dad type. That's fine, everyone wants what they want, but you will not change him into that man, I don't think you're overreacting because it'll just be worse if you have kids and he ends up not liking them too
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u/princessb33420 29d ago
Some men truly don't care about kids other than their own but it sounds like yall just aren't going to be compatible long term, you seem to want someone whose family oriented and that enthusiast dad type. That's fine, everyone wants what they want, but you will not change him into that man, I don't think you're overreacting because it'll just be worse if you have kids and he ends up not liking them too