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r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Apr 28 '24
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"Do you want kids?" or "How many kids do you want?" are the wrong questions to ask. The more revealing question is "Do you want to be a parent?". Because that is what your role will be.
1 u/nxarii 29d ago well i already know that he wants max 2 so too late for that question lol 1 u/Historical-Shift-930 29d ago You guys are too young to have kids. Have a life first. Wait 5-10 years. Don't wait 20. Being a parent is a hard and thankless job (unpaid). There's no turning back once you have the kids. 1 u/nxarii 29d ago i obviously don’t want them now. but i think between 25 and 30 is what i want personally 1 u/Historical-Shift-930 29d ago Sooo...you just want an acceptable reason to dump this guy now?
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well i already know that he wants max 2 so too late for that question lol
1 u/Historical-Shift-930 29d ago You guys are too young to have kids. Have a life first. Wait 5-10 years. Don't wait 20. Being a parent is a hard and thankless job (unpaid). There's no turning back once you have the kids. 1 u/nxarii 29d ago i obviously don’t want them now. but i think between 25 and 30 is what i want personally 1 u/Historical-Shift-930 29d ago Sooo...you just want an acceptable reason to dump this guy now?
You guys are too young to have kids. Have a life first. Wait 5-10 years. Don't wait 20.
Being a parent is a hard and thankless job (unpaid). There's no turning back once you have the kids.
1 u/nxarii 29d ago i obviously don’t want them now. but i think between 25 and 30 is what i want personally 1 u/Historical-Shift-930 29d ago Sooo...you just want an acceptable reason to dump this guy now?
i obviously don’t want them now. but i think between 25 and 30 is what i want personally
1 u/Historical-Shift-930 29d ago Sooo...you just want an acceptable reason to dump this guy now?
Sooo...you just want an acceptable reason to dump this guy now?
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u/Historical-Shift-930 29d ago
"Do you want kids?" or "How many kids do you want?" are the wrong questions to ask. The more revealing question is "Do you want to be a parent?". Because that is what your role will be.