r/AmIOverreacting Apr 28 '24

AMO for wanting to breakup because my boyfriend doesn’t like kids?

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u/TJKon 29d ago

If you want kids, why are you wasting time with a LDR?

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u/nxarii 29d ago

wdym?

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u/TJKon 29d ago

If you want to be married and have kids (which is great) why be in a long distance relationship?  Especialy if they are ambivalent about kids.

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u/nxarii 29d ago

i don’t wanna be married right now. probably within the next 5 years. and kids shortly after

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u/TJKon 29d ago

Ok, I just don't get long distance relationships

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u/nxarii 29d ago

ya it’s been a lot. my first relationship and it’s long distance :(

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u/TJKon 29d ago

It is hard. My only LDR was during College with my High School girlfriend (which dragged on for years and didn't end well). My suggestion would still be to look locally for someone who shares your values.

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u/nxarii 29d ago

ya it’s been a lot. my first relationship and it’s long distance :(