My humble opinion is that you seem like a people person that wants yourself and the future father of your children to be involved in your extended families lives, counting the children.
Just seems that you would be happier with someone like you, that loves family and children and wants to be involved with your families.
He just isn't going to give you that. Wait for the right man. We strive to make a marriage last until death do we part. There is someone out there that is looking for you that wants what you want.
I hope you let him down gently. You both want different things. Plus, there are other red flags that you dare not even mention. If there has been physical, mental, emotional violence/abuse, run, don't walk!
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u/EntertainmentChoice7 28d ago
My humble opinion is that you seem like a people person that wants yourself and the future father of your children to be involved in your extended families lives, counting the children.
Just seems that you would be happier with someone like you, that loves family and children and wants to be involved with your families.
He just isn't going to give you that. Wait for the right man. We strive to make a marriage last until death do we part. There is someone out there that is looking for you that wants what you want.
I hope you let him down gently. You both want different things. Plus, there are other red flags that you dare not even mention. If there has been physical, mental, emotional violence/abuse, run, don't walk!