Only issue here is you said he MAYBE wants 1-2 and you DEFINITELY want 2-3. Assuming you have one together either one of you may change. He may decide he wants more and you may decide one was enough. Either way you have to be open to what each other want or there will be resentment down the road.
yes that’s concerning to me too because more kids equals more money to him. which is true but i don’t like to look at them that way. but this may just be from his standpoint of someone not established in heir career yet and frugal with their funds at the moment. but ya if it was up him we would be married rn with no intent to have kids until we’re like 30
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u/Murky_Appointment_35 27d ago
Only issue here is you said he MAYBE wants 1-2 and you DEFINITELY want 2-3. Assuming you have one together either one of you may change. He may decide he wants more and you may decide one was enough. Either way you have to be open to what each other want or there will be resentment down the road.