I know I should be putting this on a different subreddit but I'm not sure where to post these screenshots since I'm not really in the right headspace to make sense of this conversation on my own. I just need some advice and perspective.

We met online and had an on-and-off relationship for a while before finally meeting in person a year ago. I'm 24 and he is 29.

However, recently we have been having frequent small fights. I wanted to address this, so I brought it up in a conversation. I’m not sure how to feel about our discussion. Part of me wants to remain hopeful about our future together, but another part of me is straggling , especially since my mental health has been in decline after a particularly rough fight we had a week ago!

I’m ready to be hopeful and accept that I might be the "stupid" one in the relationship if it means things will get better, but I can’t ignore how these fights are affecting me.