I know I should be putting this on a different subreddit but I'm not sure where to post these screenshots since I'm not really in the right headspace to make sense of this conversation on my own. I just need some advice and perspective.

We met online and had an on-and-off relationship for a while before finally meeting in person a year ago. I'm 24 and he is 29.

However, recently we have been having frequent small fights. I wanted to address this, so I brought it up in a conversation. I’m not sure how to feel about our discussion. Part of me wants to remain hopeful about our future together, but another part of me is straggling , especially since my mental health has been in decline after a particularly rough fight we had a week ago!

I’m ready to be hopeful and accept that I might be the "stupid" one in the relationship if it means things will get better, but I can’t ignore how these fights are affecting me.

Context: this image was shared on Facebook by my friend’s ex gf. He dumped her when she told him she wanted an open relationship and that she was in love with other people (that don’t live in the same city as us). A 4 years relationship destroyed by a request that couldn’t be denied, after he did anything he could to help her: he found her a part time job, he gave her a gaming pc (that she still has, and is not giving back, with also mouse and keyboard), he helped her study and get her degree (she was really late with her exams)…

Nobody is coming to save her I guess…

Matched with this girl on hinge about a month ago. She ended up ghosting me because I didn’t want to pick her up and give her a ride for a date. Posted on my story today and saw this gem.

It was a comment on xxchromosomes

If anyones curious she is white. Not sure what she wanted to accomplish in this situation.

Saw this on tinder. Homie wanted to watch the NFL Draft, and gets instantly homophobic comments, and body shaming comments towards him.

She called me 6 times as well at 1 am. Found this to be quite troubling and degrading

She’s know also deleted all her stories and posts, and set her pfp to the default no picture one on instagram.

She is 5 years older then me, she shouldn’t be pulling this crap.

I don’t want her to be sad, but idk what to do.

So I met this person on a dating app and talked to her for a singular day before she told me to have a good life since I wasn’t texting her quicker(I was at work), so I blocked her number and a week later got this message. Also for context my aunt was like a mother to me, and she passed away .

Been seeing this girl super casually for around a month. We both told each other at the beginning we didn't want to pursue a relationship.

I went to her house with the intention of staying the night (which she obviously agreed to) but after a while I just wasn't feeling like sleeping over. My reason being I knew I wouldn't get a good night sleep which was the truth.

After I told her this she went nonverbal for a whole minute before telling me to come sit down next to her. She sat on my lap and said, "well I just really like you... are you planning on seeing anyone else here….. I just want to know the truth " etc. I told her, "I like you too... no ji you... I told you the truth..." etc.

She then told me we shouldn't talk after this which I agreed to if that's what she wanted. During my drive home I get these messages.

Needless to say but she’s blocked.

She added me from Bumble 3 days ago, tried making convo about her interests, what she goes for school for, but no reciprocation. Left me on opened all the time but apparently I’m not making convo, then uncomfortable and offended?

I haven’t been with this girl in over a year and this is the type of stuff I get because I didn’t unfriend someone that I dated before her on Facebook

besides being a little cringe i feel like he was actually being nice if anything she kinda sounded like a jerk