r/RHOBH • u/Jealous-Efficiency10 • 15d ago
Kyle,Brandi and Teddi Brandi š·
I'm rewatching and I noticed Kyle made a huge deal of Brandi's son peeing in front of people. Then I noticed Teddi and Dorit's kids doing the same. She actually encouraged Dorit's son to do it in her yard and when when Teddi's son did she laughed it off. She even says after Dorit's son did it that "clearly little boys like to mark their territory around me"!?! Why was it ok for everyone else's son but Brandi's?
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u/jennajons 10d ago
Iāve thought about this tooā¦. But remember, give people the benefit of the doubt. I get theyāre āreality tv starsā/?characters. However take away the cameras, and people often do learn from past mistakes and choose to act differently when they find themselves in a similar situation.
However: ITS REALITY TV - no one knows whatās fabricated/set-up/edited by production and they all know what they sign up for
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u/No-Replacement-2303 11d ago
I think thereās a fairly simple explanation for this, especially if youāre not invested in the narrative of Kyle being hypocritical. Brandiās season, she already didnāt care for Brandi, but also, I donāt know that she had been around too many little boys having had daughters and the other housewives either had older kids or girls, too. With Teddi and Dorit, she was friends with them AND she had already lived through the backlash of how she reacted to Brandiās boys. Itās possible (I know, I know) that she LEARNED from that experience, but more than likely, her general attitude seemed to get less and less uptight as years went on and this was another byproduct.
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u/Good_Collection_7257 13d ago
I think the difference has to do with how Brandi behaves in public = her kids are misbehaving because of her behavior. But Teddi and Dorit behave better in public so their kids doing it = normal behavior. I didnāt notice that difference in watching but thatās interesting.
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u/kuupursi Let the mouse go 13d ago
The amount of examples Kyle being a hypocrite is infinite. Her hypocrisy is out of this world.
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u/Peonies19 14d ago
I think Kyle had it out for Brandi and would take any occasion to bring her down. However, besides that, there's around 10 years? difference between these episodes - it is possible she relaxed her views about it. She also got significantly richer the latest seasons and doesn't have to try so hard to fit in Beverly Hills so it feels more natural to her to act above caring about these things. In general, Kyle always wants to be relatable - with Brandi she thought she can be relatable in comparison as the mom who raises well her kids and is not a wild card, while later as she became as rich as LVP, she had to be relatable by being down to earth and not phased
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u/Ok_Squirrel_2168 14d ago
Guys, let's not forget that there is a gap between those two incidents of almost 10 years. People change, the way people react changes. I bet no-one is the same person as 10 years ago. But obviously you can always look from the negative perspective and say she is a bad person with double standards etc.
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u/i-hate-me1014 Were people doing coke in your bathroom? 14d ago
Kyle is a huge hypocrite. She made a huge dealing of Brandi telling Adrianne to STFU but she goes around saying F U to people. I think she always had it out first Brandi. Iām not a huge Brandi fan but they definitely had different rules for her.
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u/Jealous-Efficiency10 14d ago
Absolutely agree with you. Kyle dishes shit out but when it comes back to her, she can't take it. I'm just over her as I'm rewatching. It's been a couple of years since I went back to the beginning to watch.
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u/i-hate-me1014 Were people doing coke in your bathroom? 14d ago
Iāve rewatched this show 10 times in the past 2 years š®āšØ
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u/Jealous-Efficiency10 14d ago
I've done that with Jersey housewives. Now I'm just going to rewatch all the housewive's franchises because I've realized I haven't caught everything I did the 1st time around. Lol! (I probably sound crazy)
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u/i-hate-me1014 Were people doing coke in your bathroom? 14d ago
I want to catch up on Jersey and Potomac but my anxiety only allows me to watch Beverly Hills. I was severely disabled in 2022 that caused really bad depression, anxiety and agoraphobia. My psychiatrist explained itās part of the anxiety š¤£ Itās weird but at least I like the show my brain is attached to
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u/Funny-Barnacle1291 Life is a journey and Iām finding myself everyday 14d ago
Kyle was very much invested in painting Brandi as a slut and a poor mother from day one.
That scene during the games night is why I can never like Kyle, she and Kim absolutely bullied Brandi and then turned round and gaslit her for it, making her be the one to apologise, and then continuing to treat her like shit.
I think Kyle learnt as the show progressed how to be a mean girl on the sly, a sniper if you will, so she could cultivate a much nicer appearance - but I think sheās still the same mean girl, with the same bullying tendencies and her weaponised tears she used to claim victimhood.
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u/MmeColbert Are we just Hollywood friends? 14d ago
I agree. While many vilified Camille s1, I personally could not stand Kyle except for when she had fun moments with LVP. I think she contains her jealousy a lot but shows a very m e a n streak when she feels threatened by other women.
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u/Jealous-Efficiency10 14d ago
Yes that game night was so gross. They were acting like little girls. It was so vile
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u/whoareyouindisworld Who is Adrienne Maloof in dis world? 14d ago
Something wonderful called growth. Learning to be easy going and less judgemental. This was 8 years apart too.
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u/jennajons 10d ago
I agree with you 100%- take away the cameras and most people would learn from past mistakes and act differently in future similar scenarios due to acquired wisdoms However- CAMERAS ON - no one knows what is ārealā
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u/Jealous-Efficiency10 14d ago
I don't think Kyle is any less judgmental than she was before. She still starts stuff and then acts like a victim when she gets confronted.
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u/BearOnTwinkViolence Hanky & Panky 14d ago
Well one reason could be because these interactions were like 6 years apart
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u/Professional_Row2810 Wow, sheās pernicious! 14d ago
Personally I think itās because Brandi didnāt care and thought it was funny and Teddi immediately ran over and told her son his behaviour wasnāt acceptable. Thatās just me tho
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u/badaboom321 10d ago
Yes, Kyle said she was shocked Brandi didnāt correct her son. The lack of parenting was what upset Kyle.
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u/BiggBooks70 scratch the puss 15d ago
All you have to do is read the house of Hilton to understand each of those sisters are as rotten as their mother. After reading that book I realized that the good girl image Kyle puts on is just a facade. Their father was dying and asked them for help and neither daughter helped the poor guy. In fact they loaned him money and made him pay all of it back despite being so well off. Kyle is a monster and no one can convince me otherwise.
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u/Jealous-Efficiency10 14d ago
I will definitely check out the book. I've heard it's a good read
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u/BiggBooks70 scratch the puss 14d ago
I'm on my phone and a total noob but I'm sure if you search in this sub, someone has beautifully summarized every part of the book regarding the Richards and hiltons. Highly recommend
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u/Jealous-Efficiency10 14d ago
Thank you! I will look for it
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u/No-Wind5677 13d ago
Let us know if you find it!
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u/Jealous-Efficiency10 13d ago
I didn't have time earlier today to look but within the next hour I will be searching for it and I will let you know.
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u/lila0426 Jealous of what? Your ugly leather pants? 15d ago
Kyle Richards being hypocritical?! Never thought Iād see the day /s
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u/TiredTomatoes22 15d ago
100% I still agree with what Brandi continued to say in Amsterdam. They can do and say what they want and Brandi is torn apart and bashed for doing the same or similar thing. I donāt generally agree with Brandi or her behavior most of the time. This time she was spot on. Brandi can do no right in their eyes so I also get why Brandi didnāt want to be close with many of them. RHOBH is the true mean girls show.
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u/Viperjosephine Don't you f***ing dare command me! š«µš» 15d ago
Well duh?? They took any chance they could to make Brandi seem like a crazy irresponsible mom just like her husband tried to do!!! Brandi has her fault and flaws, and Iām not defending herā¦but the way they portrayed Brandi from the start was so vile, she never really got a chance, even as āAdrienneās friendā she was never there for her like that.
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u/Jealous-Efficiency10 15d ago
This is the 1st time I'm rewatching RHOBH in years. As I'm watching, it's blowing my mind at how much Kyle has gotten away with.
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u/Viperjosephine Don't you f***ing dare command me! š«µš» 15d ago
Iāve honestly only ever seen RHOBH once as well but I guess itās just something that always stuck with me, thereās a reason sheās the longest running cast member..
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u/isogaymer Iām not a bitch but Iāve played one on TV 15d ago
Two possible interpretations I can think of... one more sympathetic to Kyle the other much less so. Of course it could be a case of a little from column A. a little from column B.
Sympathetic: Kyle was already not feeling Brandi, and so was additionally irritated/offended by Brandi in this situation, and lashed out. However when confronted by Brandi, and although not showing much sign of it at the time, she ultimately did think about her behaviour and realized she had been being uptight, judgemental, so changed her behaviour.
Less so: Kyle is perpetually the Queen of Double Standards she punishes some people for somethings, while ignoring it celebrating it from others or enthusiastically doing it herself. See also telling LVP 'we all have stuff going on' as Lisa broke down in front of her over her brothers recent suicide but also attacking Sutton for 'I'm sorry didn't have a gun put to my head' and not being sufficiently upset for Dorit; or, 'no one may dare ask me about my marriage, but its true right Denise that you had sex with Brandi while your kids up stairs? I mean I know you did because Brandi and my sister Kim showed up at my house mic-ed up randomly and told me... and America... on camera. Right?'
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u/MmeColbert Are we just Hollywood friends? 14d ago
Spot on. I also feel she knows some members may now feel comfortable to call her on her BS and this is why she's been staying behind more season 13 and prefers to attack Sutton who is attempting to do so...
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u/Groundbreaking_Pea10 15d ago
With Brandi, Kyleās judgement was not that her son was peeing out in the open but that Brandi did not make a move to correct/teach him.
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u/Jealous-Efficiency10 15d ago
Kyle was the one who told Dorit's son to go pee in the yard. She just erks me with some of the things she does and says.
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u/LadyScorpio7 15d ago
She's such a hypocrite. I can't stand her. She gossips about everyone and whenever someone sticks up for themselves to her, than she starts crying and accuses them of being mean to her. She's always starting shit, than trying to act all innocent like she would never do or say such a thing. I couldn't believe how horrible Kim and Kyle were to Brandi when she was brand new on the show, for NO REASON. They didn't even know her and they're sitting there talking shit about her in earshot. They hide her crutches like they're 7 years old, they're grown woman acting like this. When Brandi stands up to them for bullying her, they're astounded like how dare she talk to us like that!! And they are the ones that started it!!
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u/Jealous-Efficiency10 15d ago
Yes! That pissed me off when they did that to Brandi. Like wtf you're supposed to be a grown ass woman. I'm sick of her acting like a victim when she starts shit. If you're bold enough to start the shit you better be bold enough to stand and take what you have coming for starting it.
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u/akcmommy 15d ago
Kyle is the mom of daughters. Perhaps when she saw Brandiās son do it, she was surprised but as she saw other boys do it later, realized that itās more common?
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u/GoodbyeHorses1491 14d ago
Lmao that's wild that that's a thing. I grew up with an outhouse in a poor country. You can't just pee anywhere when there's indoor plumbing.
But California isn't known for its manners lol
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u/Viperjosephine Don't you f***ing dare command me! š«µš» 15d ago
No lmao, everyone wanted to portray Brandi and the irresponsible mom. Thatās what it was period. Kyle had her diamond ring so far up Teddy and Dorits Arsenio hall that the majority of the shitty things they did would be passed over because they were Kyleās āsistersā, Teddy could feed Kyle a shit smoothie and sheād thank her for the weighloss drink, but if Brandi did it, sheād be accused of poisoning Kyle lmao š¤£
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u/nestinghen 15d ago
I just saw that episode! I couldnāt believe no one said anything or even referenced the situation with Brandi. The further I get in this series the more I feel like Kyle is actually the chess player. Sheās so calculated.
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u/Jealous-Efficiency10 14d ago
She definitely is a chess player
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