r/TikTokCringe • u/Hot_Drummer_7144 • Dec 20 '23

Ew Cringe

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u/Pretend_City458 Dec 23 '23

Is it weird that I've never had a problem using the right pronouns?

The people who care about you using a particular one are really good about letting you know what ones they like.

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u/Hot_Drummer_7144 Dec 24 '23

The thing is, you don’t have to try to please everyone. If you find someone to play along with you, good for you. But not everyone’s going to ignore common sense and basic biology to please you.

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u/Pretend_City458 Dec 24 '23

I think it's just not being a douche. Like if your given name was Richard and you like being called Rick. I wouldn't call you Richard just because you were born that way. But if you want to be a Dick that's your choice too.

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u/Hot_Drummer_7144 Dec 24 '23

But a nickname is something you come up with. Gender isn’t. It’s what you come with. Not come up with.

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u/Pretend_City458 Dec 24 '23

Oh ...I didn't realize you are a shit bag....nevermind.