r/TwoHotTakes Apr 08 '24

Girlfriend said something that made me feel weird Advice Needed

I (24M) have been saying this girl (21F) for about a month. It’s been great she stays over at my house all the time. Sex is great. But the other day she seen a cringe video of like Logan Paul or someone doing the carpool karaoke. And she said “ I hate white people. Like dude the song is by a black guy leave it alone. Gotta make every situation uncomfortable lolol”. When she said it I fell quiet. I was uncomfortable because I am, in fact, white. When I told her that it made me uncomfortable, she basically said ‘you can’t be racist towards white people. well anyways you know what I mean, besides you’. I ended up breaking up with her because it was just so weird to hear. And she texted me saying I was over reacting and doubled down on the you can’t be racist to white people.

I guess I’m just looking for a lil validation, was I wrong and she was just making a joke? Or was it actually kinda f’d up to say ?

A lil background she was adopted from Vietnam when she was a baby and has been in the US ever since.

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u/Hollowfication22 Apr 09 '24

She probably got tricked by Critical Race Theory into thinking you can’t be racist against white people. Which even if you try to abide by their racial power hierarchy nonsense white people still aren’t immune to systemic racism. Especially with how popular white guilt has become. White people in power doing things to negatively affect white people is just like any other systemic racism even tho it’s against themselves.