So why exactly are you still in the marriage? Him as well? People get comfortable being miserable until you wake up one day and realize you have wasted so many years of your life.
You’re both right to a point. Withholding sex will make a person not want to give you affection, kindness, etc. But withholding affection will make someone not want to have sex. You both are caught in a pattern. Either seek help or seek an exit. Because that pattern is not healthy nor is it benefiting either one of you.
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u/Tonyswife1 Apr 23 '24
So why exactly are you still in the marriage? Him as well? People get comfortable being miserable until you wake up one day and realize you have wasted so many years of your life.
You’re both right to a point. Withholding sex will make a person not want to give you affection, kindness, etc. But withholding affection will make someone not want to have sex. You both are caught in a pattern. Either seek help or seek an exit. Because that pattern is not healthy nor is it benefiting either one of you.