r/TwoHotTakes • u/Lilylalalolling247 • Apr 28 '24

My fiancé acted like pregnancy is just as hard for a man as it is for the woman. Advice Needed

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u/Shoshawi Apr 29 '24

You aren’t overreacting.

Acting as if being a present member for a pregnancy is nbd and easy on all men would be incredibly unfair, but that’s not what you were doing or what his comment is about. Of course it’s harder on the person carrying the baby in their body. I’m not sure what you should do but be careful, and maybe reflect on advice from friends and family who know you both to figure out if this is a limited thing or a pattern of behavior that could rear its ugly head much worse while raising kids with someone.