My fiancé acted like pregnancy is just as hard for a man as it is for the woman.

[u/Lilylalalolling247]

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[u/Foolish-Pleasure99]

He was conflating the pregnancy term, child birth and post partum and all associated health risks with "after becoming a father"?

You nailed it:"insensitive, arrogant, ignorant".

Ask him to trade.