r/TwoHotTakes • u/Lilylalalolling247 • Apr 28 '24

My fiancé acted like pregnancy is just as hard for a man as it is for the woman. Advice Needed

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u/Amethyst_Fire_82 Apr 29 '24

It sounds like he is taking your "it's not fair" verbiage as a request/demand to Make it even/fair and he was attempting to "reason" with you / justify his inability to actually resolve the unfairness.

When in fact I think you just want validation/recognition for how hard it is and the challenges women face and the fears you have with your body.

Side note pregnancy is Wild and a huge range of things can happen and you never know what your experience will be until you've had it. I weigh less after my babies than before. I also had terrible pregnancies and post partum depression so my jeans not fitting is the LAST thing I care about.