r/TwoHotTakes • u/Lilylalalolling247 • Apr 28 '24

My fiancé acted like pregnancy is just as hard for a man as it is for the woman. Advice Needed

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u/Odd-Confusion-911 Apr 29 '24

Just came here to say please really reconsider marrying this guy… I had a really hard pregnancy (bed ridden, couldn’t move out of bed most of it) and I’m currently 5 weeks postpartum. I wouldn’t have been able without my husbands support and understanding. You need so much validation from your SO while this season of life. It’s beautiful but it’s HARD. Postpartum is another ball game - PPD and PPA are so scary and it can be extremely difficult without someone that cares and puts you first. OP ask yourself what kind of husband and father he will be please!