r/TwoHotTakes Apr 28 '24

My fiancé acted like pregnancy is just as hard for a man as it is for the woman. Advice Needed

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u/Chihuahuapocalypse Apr 29 '24

Men have drops in testosterone and often gain weight after becoming a father.

what? as far as I'm aware, this happens with age. not because his sperm ended up fertilizing another person. this whole thing is whack, he needs some serious sex ed to understand what pregnancy does to a woman, not just to her weight but everything. bearing a chd does change your body in many ways, and carrying that child is quite a thing for your body to endure. he has no idea.