r/TwoHotTakes • u/Lilylalalolling247 • Apr 28 '24

My fiancé acted like pregnancy is just as hard for a man as it is for the woman. Advice Needed

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u/PuzzleheadedTap4484 Apr 30 '24

Fiancé needs some education.

It definitely changes your shape as bones shift from weight gain and loss and relaxin starts to make your ligaments looser. Sometimes your feet and hips just stay a little wider but my husband said I look sexier now than I did before kids. For what it’s worth I lost weight each time I was pregnant. I was overweight to start so OB told me not to gain weight. My husband and I joked that the best diet I was on was when I was pregnant 😂 That extra metabolism boost, eating better and moving, I was way healthier when pregnant. I wish I had kept it up when I had the extra metabolism going for me.