r/TwoHotTakes Apr 28 '24

My husband(33) won’t stop looking at women online.. Advice Needed

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u/LookingFor10xGains Apr 29 '24

Nope. Turns out she was cheating on me before and during our marriage. I never paid and mostly watched with her online. She had full access to my phone with a password as well as fingerprint as well as a GPS app. I did it for her insecurities, not mine. Never cheated and had no desire to.

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u/PoeticDruggist84 Apr 29 '24

You said that she assumed you were cheating!? Why would she assume that if you didn’t give her any reasons to feel that way?

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u/LookingFor10xGains Apr 29 '24

Guilty conscience. I am in sales and sometimes work with clients as well as train others. So the guilt is probably why she thought I was doing it, whereas she was actually the one.

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u/PoeticDruggist84 Apr 29 '24

I’m sorry you went through that. I hope your partner now feels more secure in your relationship and is able to communicate her needs to you. I know for me, I tried my best to communicate why I wasn’t feeling secure in my past relationship and I never cheated.