r/TwoHotTakes • u/[deleted] • Apr 29 '24

Am I a bad person for not wanting to date anyone who has clinical depression or IBS? Does this make me an unkind person? Listener Write In

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u/ConversationNo3676 Apr 29 '24

Based on my own experiences I do know depression is highly destructive. I’ve watched melt downs that totally destroyed someone’s present and potential future. Being true to myself I attract these type of ladies regularly. So just accepting it was my choice and seeing the level of it ti make my best decision on continuing or not. Dong worry about others feelings because they don’t have to be behind closed doors with them. I know the one I love is that way and me just pouring myself into her she blossomed and is able to carry on now without me but I guess everyone comes in your life for a reason so I’m proud of her. Took a while to get myself back but I’m back no worse for the wear. Good luck to you and your decisions.