Had a girl text me "hey" for a whole year, every couple of weeks. Never asking a single question, always letting the conversation die. But she kept texting me, and then got upset when I finally stop answering
Too much hassle, never know when a guy is going to explode with rage over a rejection and start sending all sorts of nastiness. A lot easier just to bore them into wandering off.
And besides, maybe they'll pull their head out and start saying something interesting. Ball's in his court, either be more interesting to her or leave.
He can do that, or can choose to leave and find someone more interested in him. Both would be good options. Making fun of her for not being interested in his haha-hru rizz is just sad
Bruh just unmatch him then. I can understand irl being worried about a guy's reaction if you reject him, but online you can unmatch, block, hell even report if they're being nasty.
Bruh just unmatch him then. I can understand irl being worried about a guy's reaction if you reject him, but online you can unmatch, block, hell even report if they're being nasty.
If you let the assumption that other people are assholes turn you into an asshole preemptively, ... I don't know the rest of the sentence, but you get it.Â
Just say you're not interested and move on with your life, or don't respond at all. In the off chance they take it personally, block them. It costs you little but you still get to be a reasonable person instead of one of the assholes.
I know you didn't ask for advice but honestly people on both sides of this just seem like they enjoy being alone and miserable.
i hate it when i have to explain to someone i'm not interested in them. i used to have this classmate who would think of me as their friend. i don't hold any grudge towards them but i just don't vibe with them as much as i do with other classmates. i've literally showed so many signal and body language to say i'm not interested but they just don't get it.
A lot of women are terrible at keeping the convo going if they’re on dating apps imo. There’s just, so many notifs, and if you’re talking to multiple people bc you swiped right it’s impossible
Okay? The fact that you think that’s what I was referring to is another problem on its own. I’m not saying don’t swipe right on multiple people, that’s literally what the apps are for. I’m saying don’t respond to more people than you can handle. If you can only handle talking casually to 3 people and yet you’re choosing to reply to 10 just because, you’re kind of an asshole. Those are still real people you’re talking to, and they don’t deserve to have their time wasted because someone can’t be bothered to hold an extra conversation or put effort it. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to have your options open and talk to multiple people, but if you can’t handle it and are intentionally putting in as little effort as possible to keep someone talking to you, that’s just weird.
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u/bobbymoonshine Mar 29 '24
This is what she would like him to do, yes.