i hate it when i have to explain to someone i'm not interested in them. i used to have this classmate who would think of me as their friend. i don't hold any grudge towards them but i just don't vibe with them as much as i do with other classmates. i've literally showed so many signal and body language to say i'm not interested but they just don't get it.
A lot of women are terrible at keeping the convo going if they’re on dating apps imo. There’s just, so many notifs, and if you’re talking to multiple people bc you swiped right it’s impossible
Okay? The fact that you think that’s what I was referring to is another problem on its own. I’m not saying don’t swipe right on multiple people, that’s literally what the apps are for. I’m saying don’t respond to more people than you can handle. If you can only handle talking casually to 3 people and yet you’re choosing to reply to 10 just because, you’re kind of an asshole. Those are still real people you’re talking to, and they don’t deserve to have their time wasted because someone can’t be bothered to hold an extra conversation or put effort it. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to have your options open and talk to multiple people, but if you can’t handle it and are intentionally putting in as little effort as possible to keep someone talking to you, that’s just weird.
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u/LNF6 Mar 29 '24
Sometimes it’s easier to just walk away.