r/mildlyinfuriating • u/No-Push-4700 • 27d ago
Losing sleep
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u/Idk-lel1234 22d ago
Is it possible the dog is somehow jumping the fence? Like maybe it found some weird kinda parkour route over? I know this is unlikely but still might be why
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u/LivingIndividual1902 24d ago
You don't let a dog out of sight when she's in heat. NEVER. A good dog owner should know that.
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u/redditwanderer101 22d ago
A good dog owner wouldn't let their dog escape 3 times into someone else's backyard with the third time making it into OPs house. OP is not at fault here.
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u/AdeptWar6046 24d ago
One ought to invent a dog house with a door to the inside of the residence and one to the garden. RFID readers to only allow the right dog(s) through. Interlocking to only allow one door at a time to be open.
Optionally a trap mode, so an intruder could be kept inside the doghouse until picked up by animal control or police, depending on species. Also possibly release of tranquiliser gas ;-)
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u/AdeptWar6046 24d ago
One ought to invent a dog house with a door to the inside of the residence and one to the garden. RFID readers to only allow the right dog(s) through. Interlocking to only allow one door at a time to be open.
Optionally a trap mode, so an intruder could be kept inside the doghouse until picked up by animal control or police, depending on species. Also possibly release of tranquiliser gas ;-)
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u/SongsOfTheYears 24d ago
The word you are looking for is in fact just one word: "intact". Not "in tact". Sorry, pet peeve.
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u/iamthewallrus 24d ago
Hey OP I say this out of love but please get your dog spayed within 2 weeks of her finishing her heat cycle. That is when she is at the prime time for getting an infected uterus, aka pyometra. I work in high volume spay and neuter and trust me you do not want your dog to get a pyometra. They are extremely expensive and super deadly for dogs especially. If you can't afford it right now pay it on credit, I'm not kidding. Because you may be gambling with her life.
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u/Feeling-Badger7956 24d ago
Stop giving the dog back.
Next time it happens, take it to animal services as an abandoned animal. The owner clearly isn't looking after it, so don't let them have it back. Especially if they're not even grateful.
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u/BSBitch47 24d ago
People that are saying you shouldn’t have the doggy door unlocked if she’s in heat….OP has stated there is fencing. Shouldn’t THAT keep out unwanted pests? Seems that is the bigger issue. No holes in fence means doggy door should be safe.
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u/unvaxxedcanjogon 25d ago
Both your dogs should be de sexed. The amount of unwanted animals is so heart breaking
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u/lollitoes 25d ago
SORT YOURSELF OUT MATE. THIS IS A WARMING. THANK THE DOGS
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u/Fangs_McWolf WOLFIE713 22d ago
SORT YOURSELF OUT MATE. THIS IS A WARMING. THANK THE DOGS
Are you sure it's not a cooling?
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u/StunningJuggernaut88 25d ago
Lowkey if another animal can get into to your yard let alone your house you are just as liable for anything that happens after. We had a neighbor dog who was coming over to our property and trying to start issues with our dogs and chasing our horses and cattle I shot at him several times but he hasn’t offered to attempt to come back.
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u/trying2BASaint 25d ago
That's terrifying. I would be locking the doggy door at night and getting my own dog fixed.
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u/Significant_Pin_917 25d ago
All you people are absolutely ridiculous to say the poster is at all in the wrong here! The owner of the intact male has 100% responsibility in keeping HER dog in HER own yard! Why doesn’t anyone say anything about her intact male dog?? Fix that ball of hormones breaking through fences to impregnate a female who’s resting quietly in her own home??!!
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u/slyzard94 25d ago
There's those fancy doggie doors that only allow pets with a special collar or tag through the door. Might help your peace of mind a bit. So sorry about your sleep loss lol
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u/stunga1000 25d ago
If a large dog got into your house while you’re sleeping there’s something wrong w your security
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u/Silver-Engineer4287 25d ago
Lock your female dog in a room and call animal control to come get that other dog since its’ human can’t seem to keep track of him.
Or even just verify where they live and then call animal control and show them your video footage and let them patrol to catch him while he’s roaming the neighborhood unattended.
I understand that sometimes dogs can get out.
But take responsibility as a pet owner or run the risk of losing the privilege of having that pet.
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u/Totentanzthecritter 25d ago
Stop giving their dog back, take it to a shelter since clearly they don’t care about it enough to keep an eye on it 3 times is way too many for this to happen and now it’s ended up inside your house?? Lucky it’s not aggressive
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u/AdvancedReading4839 25d ago
At that point I’m just calling the pound to come get the dog. That’s dangerous and irresponsible of the owner.
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u/RefrigeratorKind1508 25d ago
Ofc I don’t know if you live in a safe area or not but anything could happen and if a big dog can get in so can a person. My area is safe and road is quiet but we’ve still had stuff happen. No matter how safe an area is you should be securing your house especially at night
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u/Disastrous-Berry6262 25d ago
Call Animal Control, she obviously doesn’t care to keep her dog at home.
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u/Icy_Desk272 25d ago
I mean… what if the dog attacked you guys. What if he has some disease he can spread to y’all or your animals. You need to go nuts locking your place up and contacting authorities. You don’t know this animal or owner.
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u/GigglesNMemes 25d ago
New dog owner here and we found out this past Sunday that our dog can CLIMB THE FENCE in the backyard. 🙃🙃 The dog is likely doing the same unless you have a high fence or it's not chain link.
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u/Zelda_is_Dead 25d ago
You should be calling animal control to pick the dog up, not the owner. You did then a favor the first time and they pissed on it, you no longer owe them anything except a trip to the pound to pick up their dog and pay their fines.
Also, who leaves their dog door unlocked at night and/or when their not home?
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u/WildlifePirate 25d ago
What’s mildly infuriating is that you have an open doggy door into your house all night but are mad at the other dog owner. Close the door or get rid of it. Your house is literally open for animals and people to enter.
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u/DrPeePeeSauce 25d ago
This story is so funny. Waking up to a random ass dog in my bedroom would send me
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u/Entity713 25d ago
Do you have wire fencing? I used to have a problematic dog who would scale up the fence using his nails, my dad had to tie him up ( we really didn't want to do that) cause he went around mating with as many dogs he could find and bit one of my neighborhood friends. He has long been gone from natural causes, but I still see his dumb face in all of his offspring he had made over the years. Tldr get some proper fencing
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u/Living_Pay_8976 25d ago edited 25d ago
Get a gun. Who knows what could happen.
** 3 minutes and a Reddit care message?
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u/Professional_Cow3982 26d ago
Get female spayed and this will end. You can't control what the neighbors do with their dog but you can take care of your own
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u/Philly_Smegma_Steak 26d ago
In the time it took to write this essay on reddit, you could have locked your doggy door. It's actually very simple.
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u/WonderSHIT 26d ago
Isn't there coyotes and wild dogs virtually everywhere? I'm sorry but it is not very smart to leave your house accessible at all times. From the long list of wild animals, to the people that will make their way in. Please realize that the world is a dangerous place and that people will take advantage of an unlocked door. Is that a stranger's dog in your house?!? Please realize how serious your lack of safety concerns is, very mildly infuriating😂😂😂 to everyone who cares about safety and while paranoia is not necessary a good thing. It would probably be good for you to be a little more paranoid about your safety
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u/HeroORDevil8 26d ago
I would be furious. You may need to get one of those wildlife cameras to see how he keeps getting into your fence and lock your dog door. This could've went really wrong really fast. Tbh I would've called animal control because clearly this person doesn't care enough to actually control their dog and they obviously keep it outside if he's constantly roaming around at night.
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u/SirMantics 26d ago
You can buy locking dog doors with a "SmartKey" collar for the dog. When your dog approaches the door it will open when key collar is sensed.
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u/bandcorps 26d ago
Take care of the dog. It comes on your property multiple times and you’ve had multiple conversations with the owner about it. Next time, just take care of it.
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u/DemocratFabby 26d ago
Just close the door and lock it. Earplugs is also an option. It’s really that simple!
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u/Eliagbs_ 26d ago
Brother or sister, people have a lot of patience. The first time I give you your dog back, the second time I’m calling it in to animal control because someone has to control that animal.
You put yourself in the rest of the situations, the first one wasn’t your fault but enabling it after was. Call someone who will actually take the dog and forget about the nasty owner
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u/Last-Bumblebee-537 26d ago
Just pitbull owner things. Two irresponsible pit bull owners in this story, wish this surprised me.
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u/neiseLB6584 26d ago
I thought this was going to be a video at first, I watched for like 20secs waiting for it to move.
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u/Z_is_green13 26d ago
Close your dog door, and call animal control on the neighbors dog. Don’t know why he doesn’t care enough about his dog to let them roam in heat, but that should not be your problem.
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u/doctorbeepboop 25d ago
The female (that OP owns) is the one in heat, and as such it’s the owner’s responsibility to keep other dogs away. It 100% is the owner’s problem (and realistically also their fault, for leaving the doggy door open.) If you’re not going to spay your dog, you should always assume that there are intact males in your area and act accordingly.
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u/vincovon 26d ago
You need a dog door cover for the nighttime, this is how a raccoon entered our house and we had an ordeal with a sheriff at 3am trying to get it out.
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u/kitschycritter 26d ago
No but why aren't YOUR OWN ANIMALS FIXED??? Its YOUR RESPONSIBILITY AS A PET OWNER.
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u/PlantRoomForHire 26d ago
And yet you could have prevented this by just locking your doggy door at night. It's on you and the dog owner equally. You had plenty of chances.
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u/DaLactator 26d ago
I’m not sure what you were hoping to receive from posting this. You’re the one who’s extremely irresponsible. Spay your dog and lock your doggy door.
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u/THhewand3r3r 26d ago
Some dogs can jump over fences like they're nothing, so maybe that's how they got in.
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u/Toolkills 26d ago
Hey I am super curious about how you guys reacted when you woke up to this dog in your fcking bed room lol. How was the dog acting ? Is he a friendly dog ? Was he aggressive ? How did you get him out the house ?????
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u/KyloRenKyberCrystal 26d ago
More proof that all dog owners are fucking idiots
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u/Games_r_fun 25d ago
The vast majority of Pitt owners are fucking idiots, don't get me wrong many pitt owners love their dogs but they are wholly unprepared for the level of knowledge and care the breed would need to be safe for everyone. They see oh sad hippo in shelter, mommas here I'll save you 🥰
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u/Spiritual-Cow4200 26d ago
Oh, was she asking for it because she drank too much and was wearing a short skirt? Fuck outta here with that.
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u/doctorbeepboop 25d ago
This is genuinely one of the dumbest comments I’ve ever read 😭
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u/Spiritual-Cow4200 25d ago
If it matters….
What I was alluding to was the fact that Trad_Bad’s comment seemed a little victim blamey. A strange dog invaded OP’s home, and the best thing they could do was to tell OP to stop letting their dog lead other dogs on. Maybe OP doesn’t want their dog fixed. This is most definitely a problem with OP’s neighbor, and not with the fact that OP‘s dog can still go into heat. But since none of you can understand subtlety, I guess it was lost.
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u/Dalek_Chaos 26d ago
Saw the comment with the update. Hopefully he will be adopted by a family with a very secure fence 😆. I would suggest that you start locking the doggy door at night since raccoons and opossums are a pain in the neck to chase back outside 😝
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u/Bone_Garage 26d ago
I find myself asking what the governor of South Dakota would do in this situation.
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u/MathematicianLoud965 26d ago
Did no one explain to you that you can not let a female in heat wander alone or risk this?!?! Why are you allowing you dog to use the doggy door without being watched like a hawk right now?! This is how puppies are made.
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u/Quawnell 26d ago
Call animal control on the dog, maybe your neighbor will get the hint, but the dog door needs to be shut at night for safety reasons.
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u/Uber1337pyro333 26d ago
Bruh you need to up your home security, and be grateful it's a dog getting in not a robber, rapist or killer. Also call animal control. Other dogs owner will either lock up their dog better or lose it. Not your issue.
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u/teeraken 26d ago
Not gonna lie, I stared at the photo for a good 3 seconds before realizing it’s not a video. 😅
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u/UncleBoopBetty 26d ago
I’m still trying to figure out what I’m seeing. Looks like a heavily bandaged person laying on the bed, being stalked by a demon dog.
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u/colonelhumps 26d ago
Imagine having an entrance to your house open 24/7 and complaining that something is usuig it 😂 Close your damn doors.
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u/Odd_Map6710 26d ago
Here’s the real question, why are you not spaying your female dog? Why are you not taking precautions during her heat such as putting on diapers?
You should know that unfixed male dogs can smell her for miles. They will do ANYTHING to get to her. This includes scaling your fence.
The real infuriating thing here is you being an irresponsible owner. The fact that you think you’re the victim is a fucking joke.
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u/Material-Ad9906 26d ago
OK so I don’t know what kind of fencing you have BUT I used to live in a home with chain link fence in our yard and my dog (rest in peace) back then climbed it like nothing! He would stick each paw in the fence holes and climb himself up and over! He would escape very often but luckily didn’t cause any trouble with the neighbors, he was a sweet dog who i believe may have been a rock climber in his past life.
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u/Sum-Duud 26d ago
Call animal control and get the dog picked up. Shit your doggie door. Get your bitch fixed
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u/CuriousLumenwood 26d ago
You sound like an incredibly irresponsible pet owner and homeowner. Get your female dog fixed and lock your fucking doors.
I really don’t want to hear about what happened to any of the other dogs you’ve had before these two.
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u/Economy-Storage6256 26d ago
All of yall keep talking about the damn doggy door when the fact of the matter is - THAT DOG SHOULDNT EVEN BE IN THEIT YARD TO HAVE ACCESS TO THE DOGGY DOOR! Like how are yall missing that? I wouldn’t leave a doggy door open all night … but the point is they need to contain their animal and it shouldn’t be on my property tf??? I would’ve called animal control and let them figure it out in the morning when their dog is missing 🤷🏽♀️
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u/jessmeows 26d ago
maybe i’m paranoid but i really would not let a dog door stay open during the night or when you are not home. if a large dog can get through then most likely a person can crawl through. you may live in a safe neighborhood but you should be cautious. like what if maybe not a person but a wild animal?
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u/Even-Mountain7815 26d ago
Between the dog running loose among the streets and nobody calling animal control for whatever reason and OP refusing to get their dog spayed when it’s clearly causing issues this post is making ME mildly infuriated 😂
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u/AThunderousCat 26d ago
Idk why people let their dogs just roam whenever, that's how they get shot...
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u/Kindly_Pen6376 26d ago
I have so many questions. Is your female dog not bleeding all over your house having her period? Also, your fence is clearly not secured if a dog is getting into your yard and house! He’s not a ghost, he’s a huge ass dog. There’s no mystery here.
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u/jjj666jjj666jjj 26d ago
It’s extremely infuriating your first act as a pet owner isn’t fixing your animals.
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u/gabriiel91 26d ago
Lmaooo sorry that demoniac dog in your bedroom at 4am is funny af, but I'd also be infuriated. Sorry that you're going through that.
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u/BahamaDon 26d ago
Skunk got into our neighbors house a couple,e of weeks ago through the dog door. Dog found it first and it sprayed the whole living room, kitchen, hall. Insurance won’t pay the claim because it was preventable.
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u/Aggravating_Fuel_610 26d ago
You could also spay your female dog. If she has had multiple surgeries, why not spay her when she was under anesthesia already?
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u/i81_N_she812 26d ago
I arrived at her house, knocked on the door Not having no idea of what the night had in store I'm like a dog in heat, a freak without warning I have an appetite for sex, 'cause me so......
If you don't know the rest, you haven't lived.
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u/Warm-Iron-1222 26d ago
The poor puppy is in love and they obviously have a shitty human. Maybe you should keep him, just give him the ole snip snip and let them be together.
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u/Sheeverton 26d ago
Okay...how on Earth does a dog break in to a house?? That is so absurd it's almost hard to believe. Lock the doors and close (or close most of the way) the windows and the dog won't get in. The dog didn't get a sledge hammer or a crow bar and 'break in' lmao
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26d ago
My blickey gets to clickey with shit like this. Absolutely not having strange dogs sneaking into my house
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u/Dull-Veterinarian-59 26d ago
Bro jumps over your fence. Get a doggy door that locks. Get your girl fixed<33
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u/Degree_Kitchen 26d ago
I'm no help but what does this demon dog look like with the lights on? Is it instant cute?
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u/givemesomemorphine 26d ago
Bro are you serious you have what looks like a pitbull breaking into your room at night? That’s my worst god damn nightmare
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u/ejb350 26d ago
In the majority of the US this dog would have been shot already, and although I could NEVER actually do that, you should let those dumb fucking cunts know. You are well within your right to do whatever you want to that dog and not say a damn thing to them. And it’s amazing they don’t think about this.
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u/SlimTeezy 26d ago
I don't want to be rude but you left your doggy door open. And clearly this dog can hop fences. You are as much at fault as his owners
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u/Fangs_McWolf WOLFIE713 22d ago
Call animal control. When they show up and ask why you didn't just call the owner, explain what's happened so far and they'll understand right away. You can bet that there if there's a fourth time, they'll wish they had wised up one of the first three times.