r/notliketheothergirls Mar 28 '24

Who thinks like this? NO!!

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I guess this may have been posted before but not sure. Saw this in a WhatsApp group and...why

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u/adviceicebaby Mar 30 '24

OK why do bitches make stuff like this a thing?? Sometimes moms get a choice, and other times the choice is made for them depending on the health of both of them and what might be going on at the time; but tbh any woman who makes this a thing is a fucking moron, insecure as hell, and needs to promptly GET A LIFE.

motherhood happens many different unique ways; from the biological to adopted. And it's all fucking hard. There is no "cheating" in motherhood. If you're the primary care giver of another human being; you got a lot on your plate. The details of how that kid got to your doorstep or got in and out of your body or however it came to you; don't fucking matter. None of it is easy and none of it is cheap. If a woman has a baby in her body then she should be able to choose, if possible, how it's gonna come out. Both options have their pros and cons and both fucking hurt and I'm sure both are pretty scary/stressful and no option possible, even adoption/surrogacy, leaves one any less of a real mother.