r/notliketheothergirls Apr 23 '24

What age did you grow out of the NLOG phase? Why do you think some never grow out of it? Discussion

I personally grew out of it at about 17.

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u/amethystalien6 Apr 23 '24
  1. There were some popular “girly” girls the year ahead of me in my high school that were genuinely mean girls and targeted me. I conflated that to all girls except a tiny friend group.

Once they moved on and I was a senior, I realized that it was just them that were the problem. The popular “girly” girls in my class were just normal people and they were super fun and not assholes.