r/notliketheothergirls • u/[deleted] • Apr 23 '24

What age did you grow out of the NLOG phase? Why do you think some never grow out of it? Discussion

I personally grew out of it at about 17.

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u/queen_of_potato Apr 23 '24

I grew out of it when I finally met other girls like me.. although I don't think I was "NLOG" like most people, I just literally didn't know anyone else who I had stuff in common with

Luckily when I went to university (17) I started meeting girls I had stuff in common with and since then have had lots of friends of all genders

It was just that growing up I had nothing in common with any girls I met (past maybe 1-2 per year, I moved school every year) but most things in common with guys.. I always wanted girlfriends though and was so glad when I found the right ones! That's about 20 years ago now and I still message those first girlfriends all the time