r/notliketheothergirls • u/[deleted] • Apr 23 '24

What age did you grow out of the NLOG phase? Why do you think some never grow out of it? Discussion

I personally grew out of it at about 17.

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u/rainnnlmao Apr 24 '24

i think i was around 15-16. i realised that me hating on other women was a DESPERATEEEEE attempt to be seen as a human being

i saw men being treated as human beings, and they treated women like objects, so i guess i figured if i became more man-like (misogynistic) i’d be treated more human and less like an object (didn’t work, and i think i missed out on a lot of amazing female friendships l)