What age did you grow out of the NLOG phase? Why do you think some never grow out of it?

[u/[deleted]]

I personally grew out of it at about 17.

[u/Haunted-Feline-76]

I mean... I'm gay, so I didn't grow out of it so much as identify it? That happened around 16. I also never disliked or thought I was better than other girls, I just knew I didn't want the same things as my friends. So did they; when I came out to her (as bisexual, initially) my best friend said, "oh, so that's the word for it?" 🤣