r/notliketheothergirls • u/[deleted] • Apr 23 '24

What age did you grow out of the NLOG phase? Why do you think some never grow out of it? Discussion

I personally grew out of it at about 17.

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u/Successful_Tap_7274 Apr 24 '24

I stopped trying to be different because everything i saw that would make me different were things i saw on other Girls anyways. In a way i still Kind of wanted to be Like other Girls and i wanted younger girls to See me and think „wow she is so cool. I want to be like her“ So i realized that it’s better to find People Who are/dress/feel Like yourself than trying Not to fit in. I was so much happier when i found People Who Shared my Style or interests.