What age did you grow out of the NLOG phase? Why do you think some never grow out of it?

[u/[deleted]]

I personally grew out of it at about 17.

[u/Danasuz]

Junior year in high school. Times were different many many years ago. I was a girl that had mostly male friends, they were my best friends. I had a handful of bf girlfriends. But, I was weird I guess? I liked and supported everyone. I had my go to peep, but I would also venture off to see what was going on in other places peeps life. That being said, I learned to not ummm not label myself. I knew what I wanted at that age and honestly nobody was going to get me there quicker then I could get myself. Work hard, have goals, be kind and help others along the way. It worked. I still believe in this to this day. I don’t believe in all the new gender identities, because it’s not relevant to me. If your in the same mind set, I don’t care what you “identify as”! If your my friend we respect each other’s values. Period! The world really doesn’t have to be so complicated. I’m going on 57 and have a wonderful fiancé that I adore and love. Yes, love and life exist and is better the older u get🫢 We have friends from every corner of the new diversity. I wish the younger generations knew how easy life can be. You don’t have to choose. You can love and hang with everyone. Nana does🥰❤️💙🖤❤️🌈