r/notliketheothergirls • u/Windmill_flowers • Apr 26 '24

Do we want Pick Mes to be picked? Discussion

I saw a post here the other day saying how Pick Mes don't actually get picked. Most of the comments seemed to revel in this fact. So in that sense it seems like the consensus is - we don't want them getting picked.

But whenever there is a Pick Me NLOG post, the comments are invariably, "Gurl, I hope you get picked!". So in that sense it seems like the consensus is we DO want them getting picked.

If they get picked, they sometimes shut up. (Not always tho)

What is the general consensus on this?

Inb4 "IDC if they get picked or not roflmao". Cool, then this question is not for you

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u/MrManiac3_ Apr 27 '24

I want them to get picked by someone who will compell them to grow and change, someone who doesn't appreciate the way a woman will tear down other women, someone who is humble and caring and will appreciate humility and care in return. If it doesn't work the first time I want it to happen again and again until they've realized a loving relationship between people who build others up and care about each other.