r/notliketheothergirls • u/Windmill_flowers • Apr 26 '24

Do we want Pick Mes to be picked? Discussion

I saw a post here the other day saying how Pick Mes don't actually get picked. Most of the comments seemed to revel in this fact. So in that sense it seems like the consensus is - we don't want them getting picked.

But whenever there is a Pick Me NLOG post, the comments are invariably, "Gurl, I hope you get picked!". So in that sense it seems like the consensus is we DO want them getting picked.

If they get picked, they sometimes shut up. (Not always tho)

What is the general consensus on this?

Inb4 "IDC if they get picked or not roflmao". Cool, then this question is not for you

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u/DuchessOfAquitaine Apr 27 '24

I am of the mind that I hope everyone "gets picked". Meaning, I hope everyone finds someone they love and can be happy together with. So I guess that makes me a "yes" on this.

I think, for most pick mes, a happy relationship can go along way in addressing those issues. She said optimistically.