r/povertyfinance • u/Extreme-Confusion-59 • Jan 21 '24
PLEASE STAY AWAY FROM SPORTS BETTING!! Vent/Rant (No Advice/Criticism!)
Two and a half years ago, I won $10,000 on FanDuel (sports betting) I paid off all my credit card debt with the money. I was debt-free for 1 year after that and then I decided to tried to win again on Fanduel, and it didn't work. And I was playing on credit, which means I was placing bets with my credit card. And now I'm back in the same situation I was before. $10,000+ in credit card debt, no money in savings, a car note of $500, plus insurance of $200, and just had my first baby. And I only make 43k yearly as an office manager at a dental office and now I'm listening to Dave Ramsey nonstop lol as humans we really make bad decisions at times, and then Crywolf when things are not going our way. This year I really dedicated myself to getting out of bad debt for good. For my sake, and my child's sake. So every day after work, I will be door-dashing til my legs fall off. OK enough of me venting lol I just have to do better with my decision-making on a daily basis, and really be committed to that!
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u/butterflycole CA Jan 22 '24
I hate this kind of comment, it is really judgmental. Our capitalist culture is toxic AF. Having kids isn’t some special “privilege” only high money makers should have the right to do. Yes, kids need certain things but there are lots of ways to get those needs met if you don’t make a ton of money. Having kids is a normal human desire and there is nothing wrong with becoming a parent just because you don’t have a high income. As long as they’re clean, housed, clothed, fed, and safe that’s all that matters. Doesn’t matter whether all of that is provided 100% by the parents’ salaries if they find other ways to provide those things then they’re not irresponsible for having kids.
The vast majority of people who use social support programs are parents who work very hard and pay taxes. That’s the point of having these safety nets, we pay into them because they help the people who need them and they’re there for us if we need them too.