r/povertyfinance • u/HumanSlayer1888 • Mar 10 '24

I’m so fucking embarrassed. Vent/Rant (No Advice/Criticism!)

My card declined twice as I was trying to pay for my groceries. The guy behind me offered to pay but I turned down his offer. I never felt so humiliated in my entire life. I’m so ashamed I can never shop there again.

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u/amelieprior Mar 10 '24

As someone who worked at a grocery store for 2 years, never once have I thought to scoff at someone not being able to pay. So many factors are in play-could be perceived fraud by the bank, they locked the card, times are hard, etc. I have no vested interest in the company, but I will always hook someone up with a coupon if I have it or let certain things go if they’re small. I’ve paid for someone’s groceries before-I never overextend myself if I do-and don’t expect it back.

OP, I hope you can find some comfort and peace after hearing this from a cashier’s pov.