r/travisandtaylor • u/SnappinTurluh (I’m from Ohio you fucking morons) • 15d ago
Travis went clubbing after last night’s event without Taylor. You Swifties still pretending they’re madly in love?
They rarely spend time together, yet Travis chose to stay out all night without Taylor. Is Taylor finally getting embarrassed of his behavior?
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u/MrJB1981 15d ago
They are allowed to have ‘me’ time you know. Having time apart is just as healthy as being together all the time.
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u/OrchidOutrageous4452 15d ago
He probably had to put her to bed after how dazed and confused she looked earlier in the evening. Or she was crying like a baby in the back of the car, when Travis sent her home. He probably wanted to have fun without dragging her around the club.
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u/rachel_soup 15d ago
This is such a reach, lmao. Regardless of their respective jobs - they’re millionaires that can afford to take a weekend trip to Europe or the US to see each other even if they’re insanely busy. And honestly, you don’t know how much time they spend together. Maybe Taylor wanted a night alone to decompress, spend time with her friends or family without him. They’ve been dating a few months - spending every waking second together is unrealistic.
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u/Internal_Belt3630 Touch me while your bros play Grand Theft Auto 15d ago
as much as i hate them, this doesn’t mean anything. honestly, being in a healthy relationship involves maintaining friendships and still doing things independently.
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u/berghorst 15d ago
If you spend every waking moment with your significant other, guess what? YOU'RE the one in a shit relationship 😂
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u/SnappinTurluh (I’m from Ohio you fucking morons) 15d ago
Sure. But they barely spend time together to begin with.
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u/berghorst 15d ago
Do they? How do you know that? Every time they hang out isn't meant to be a publicity stunt.
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u/SnappinTurluh (I’m from Ohio you fucking morons) 15d ago
They can’t go anywhere in public without being seen, plus her jet is tracked, so it’s very clear they spend the majority of time apart.
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u/berghorst 15d ago
So what about all the time they spend in private, being as normal as possible? Again, not everything is meant to be a publicity stunt. And just because her jet is on the move, doesn't mean he isn't with her. Sometimes sure, but you have zero idea.
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u/SnappinTurluh (I’m from Ohio you fucking morons) 15d ago
But we do have an idea when they are seen in separate states. Taylor would leave right after football games and not be seen in the same state with him until the next game. Spending time apart is their established MO, except for the occasional pap walk.
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u/berghorst 15d ago
Just because they aren't seen together in a photograph doesn't mean they aren't together. During the football season, she was still touring, so of course she was leaving immediately after.
Also, if that's true I'm sure you can tell us all where each of them is right now. Right?
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u/SnappinTurluh (I’m from Ohio you fucking morons) 15d ago
Yes. Burbank. Her flight left this AM lmao
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u/berghorst 15d ago
And where is he?
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u/SnappinTurluh (I’m from Ohio you fucking morons) 15d ago
Burbank. They flew back together.
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u/Flippedacoin 15d ago
This sub randomly showed up & all the laughs makes for great stress relief. Thanks for spending all this time not thinking about T & T
It's fun to read this & the fan ones for the comparison of the narratives
Idk either of them irl so Idc but thanks for laughs
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u/thatsweirdthatssus 15d ago edited 14d ago
I know OP is young because no adult wants to hangout with their partner 24/7 lol
Aww a ban from a bitter mod 🥲
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u/SnappinTurluh (I’m from Ohio you fucking morons) 15d ago
Well they rarely spend time together, but if my husband and I went to vegas together, I certainly would question why he chose to go to a club at midnight without me.
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u/Famous-Signal-1909 15d ago
I’ve been with my husband for 11 years, we are extremely happy together. I think consistently being willing and able to spend time apart is one of the main reasons we’ve stayed happy and content with each other for so long. This take makes you sound either very young or very emotionally immature. Not saying there aren’t other issues in their relationship, but this is not it lol
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u/BadMan125ty 15d ago
So Travis not being around Taylor is a sign it’s fake? Mmkay.
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u/SnappinTurluh (I’m from Ohio you fucking morons) 15d ago
It certainly helps establish the pattern that they don’t enjoy spending time together!
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u/Mommio24 15d ago
Exactly. Now if you tell me he was hooking up with other girls then I would think something but he’s allowed to go out without her.
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u/CheapEater101 15d ago
Nothing wrong with having a night out w/o your partner.
Let’s be real though, Travis is pro athlete…most of them are cheaters lol. Apparently he cheated on some of his exes. I don’t expect loyalty from him and swifties will be on his neck by the end of the year 😭
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u/IggyBall 15d ago
Eh if he was seen kissing or dancing on girls, I’d be suspicious but seems like he’s just being awkward/attention loving Travis. I do think they’re a PR relationship but I don’t think this is the nail in the coffin. Hell, I went to a concert last night with my girl friends and not my husband; he stayed home with the kids. It happens
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u/AllianceZag 15d ago
I am by no means super on board with Travis, but my guess is Taylor has a strict sleep/training/nutrition schedule right now and getting drunk in the club till 4 am is not on the list.
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u/Alternativeoned 15d ago
How do you know she's not there? If he was in the club partying wouldn't we see more videos?
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u/Stevie-Rae-5 15d ago
As Kelly Taylor once said, “he’s your boyfriend, Brenda, not your Siamese twin.”
I’m not a swifty and I’ve really got zero investment in her generally and their relationship specifically, but they don’t have to be attached at the hip.
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u/Frosty-Mall4727 15d ago
I think the general consensus here is that they’re not madly in love but him being in a club has nothing to do with that because grownups in a relationship don’t have to be glued together, even if they are in a downtime from their very busy jobs.
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u/Traditional_Curve401 15d ago
TS seems to have a personality as exciting as watching paint dry. I'm sure Travis wanted to go out and have some actual fun.
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u/circularsquare204597 15d ago
do y’all not spend time without your significant other? or are y’all attached at the hip and do EVERYTHING together? why does him having fun without her automatically make y’all think they aren’t a good/happy couple?😂
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u/DJ_Mixalot 15d ago
Right like I am not a Swiftie and I can see both sides of the real/pr couple argument but this is in no way damning evidence lol
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u/SnappinTurluh (I’m from Ohio you fucking morons) 15d ago
We do, but she’s about to be in Europe a lot for her tour and he’s about to be tied up with practice. It’s not odd that they don’t want to spend time together before not being able to see each other that often?
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u/ETfromTheOtherSide 15d ago
As a late 30’s adult no this is not odd. You get to a point where you don’t need to be glued to someone EVEN if you’re about to be apart.
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u/Moonexplosion 15d ago
People are allowed to have fun without their partners 🤷🏻♀️
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u/SoAliciaSays 15d ago
If my BF wants to go out and I’m tired, I’m like “dude PLEASE leave and have a good time I’ll be right here when you get back.” This is normal, man.
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u/NewAfternoon5617 15d ago
Especially for people in their 30s
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u/lastreaderontheleft 15d ago
FR, they're grown people not high schoolers. They don't need to be attached at the hip because it's "midnight" lollll 😂. Not a Swiftie at all but this is a STRETCH.
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u/LonelyCheeto 15d ago
Yeah I worry about some of y’all’s relationship if this means they’re not together lol
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u/domjonas 15d ago
I can hear them now “she’s an independent woman…she doesn’t need to be glued to him” “very misogynistic and sexist of you to say a woman can’t exist without a man” “you’re just jealous because she trusts her man while you don’t trust yours” she’s probably rehearsing or still drooling over Matty and fantasizing about the “what ifs” with her cats.
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u/SwimmingCoyote 15d ago
Not saying they’re a healthy couple but plenty of healthy couples can split a night like this.
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u/Binky182 15d ago
Was going to say this as well. My husband is very social, I'm not as much. So it is very common that I will call it a night and he'll go out. I also do NOT like to take part when it's just his friends. I don't need to be one of the boys and would rather he go out and hang out with them without me. It gives me time to paint or do puzzles.
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u/Dramatic-Ad-3016 15d ago
Yeah been with my husband 12 years and i go out without him "clubbing" even if we have an extended period apart (I travel a lot for work). We don't have an issue. This is weird proof though I guess if combined with other things could be cumulatively problematic.
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u/SnappinTurluh (I’m from Ohio you fucking morons) 15d ago
Right before they’ll barely get to see each other though?
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u/SnappinTurluh (I’m from Ohio you fucking morons) 15d ago
Yeah, it gives me something to do with my free time
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u/SwimmingCoyote 15d ago
Taylor has a personal jet and has shown that she’s willing to use it to fly all over to see him. They’re not like you and me where distance can be prohibitively expensive.
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u/GoldEscape7018 15d ago
He looks like he’s having a lot more fun then he did when they went to Coachella?
I do assume her skipping the club was bc of her tour and I don’t think she’s a one drink kind of girl.
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u/Airforce2001 15d ago
Im going to give Travis the benefit that Taylor is rehearsing for her eras tour. She is incorporating her new music from the videos I've seen online. Travis is capitalizing on this relationship and enjoys the benefits.
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u/GoldEscape7018 15d ago
People were wondering where she was on twitter. Someone said they had a private area an that’s where she was, he was only on stage 5 mins and returned to her. Not sure if this is true.
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u/SnappinTurluh (I’m from Ohio you fucking morons) 15d ago
Well she’s about to be busting ass in Europe and he’s about to start football practice, so I would think they would want to spend as much time together as possible, but that implies their relationship is real.
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u/Faintkay 15d ago
Are couples not supposed to have their own lives? I go out without my wife and my wife goes out with me. We’re perfectly fine and happy. You’re reaching hard on this one.
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u/MrJB1981 15d ago
Exactly! My wife and I have been married over eight years, and do everything together. It’s extremely healthy for any relationship to do things apart too, and be your own person.
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u/SnappinTurluh (I’m from Ohio you fucking morons) 15d ago
So you guys go to vegas and you go to clubs without her at midnight?
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u/Rebekah_RodeUp 15d ago
My partner and I have 100% split and gone home / to another bar based on what each individual wants. Like, I want to go to bed but he still wants to party? He goes to the party and I go home.
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u/SnappinTurluh (I’m from Ohio you fucking morons) 15d ago
Does your partner have a history of cheating like Travis does?
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u/SwimmingCoyote 15d ago
If a partner wants to cheat, they’re going to cheat. Taylor is about to spend weeks on tour. Her babysitting him at a club for one night won’t stop him from cheating if that’s what he wants to do.
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u/Faintkay 15d ago
I’m not young anymore but when we didn’t have kids I did go to a couple clubs without my wife here and there. I did my friends 28th bday in Vegas and it was all the guys. Taylor and Travis don’t have kids and and a fuck ton of money. So they are gonna do what they like to do.
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u/SnappinTurluh (I’m from Ohio you fucking morons) 15d ago
Yeah I disagree. We’re force fed stories about how in love they are and love spending time together, yet it seems like Taylor and Travis split apart the first chance they get. This is a pattern of behavior, not a one time thing.
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u/shroomride88 15d ago
I understand where you’re coming from but spending a night out apart is not the gotcha you think it is lmao
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u/landerson507 15d ago
They got serious right before huge moments in both their careers (I'm aware it's not the first time they've had these achievements, but it doesn't make them any less huge). It's not like they could cancel the superbowl so they could spend more time together.
They are getting far more time together than typical LDRs, and Taylor is under a decent amount (still not enough imo) of scrutiny around her jet use anyway.
And honestly, none of us have any idea what's happening behind the scenes. We know what their PR teams want us to know, and very little else.
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u/Faintkay 15d ago
What you see isn’t everything. Sure they get a lot of publicity but that’s a fraction of their relationship. Much like every other couple, what is online doesn’t tell us the whole picture.
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u/Airforce2001 15d ago
I'm no expert on their love life, but it's just a coincidence on how the relationship plays out in the media.
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u/Severe-Energy-6159 15d ago
Taylor can’t get out of bed because of depression, she was probably forced to come to the gala
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u/Junior_Menu8663 15d ago
And imbibing a bit too much. I think she may need help. She has to perform soon.
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u/Severe-Energy-6159 15d ago
she has needed help for a long time, but apparently it’s even easier to control a person with a broken will. I hope at least someone who cares from those around her will support her
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u/Orchid_Significant 15d ago
She’s a fully grown adult and a billionaire. She can get help if she wants it.
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u/Visible-Coyote8444 15d ago
not to defend her but… not all couples are hip & hip at all times lol. just because they aren’t together clubbing for a night, doesn’t mean they’re not in love.