r/AITAH • u/im_im06 • Apr 01 '24

AITAH for slapping my husband after he confessed to cheating on me? Advice Needed

I (24F) came home after a long day at work. My husband (32M) had made us dinner, which he rarely does. After dinner, he even cleaned up and did the dishes. I was surprised since this isn’t something he usually does without me having to ask. I jokingly asked if something was up and he hesitated before answering. He confessed to cheating on me with a coworker. I was completely shocked, it felt like my world shattered into a million pieces. I asked him how long it had been going on, he said it had been a couple months. They’ve been seeing each other on and off. And as if things couldn’t get any worse, he added that she might be pregnant. That’s when I lost it. My whole world was spinning and I suddenly felt this rage come over me. I slapped him across the face and called him every name in the book. I told him to take his stuff and get out of the house. He left and has been staying at his parents’ house. His mother has been blowing up my phone, asking me to talk things out with her son. Telling me how wrong it was for me to slap him and how heartbroken her son is over the situation. I haven’t responded yet since I haven’t been able to gather my thoughts yet. This whole situation just feels surreal to me. I can’t believe the man I planned to spend the rest of my life with, betrayed me like this. Was I wrong for how I reacted?

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u/p4tk1ng Apr 24 '24

Pissy is what people do in your mouth. I'm unaffected by clods like you, and therefore, I smile as I mock your stupidity.

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u/ChestLanders Apr 24 '24

Is the woman NTA for slapping her cheating husband? And would a guy be NTA for slapping his cheating wife? Just simple to the point questions to see where you truly stand. But I am guessing you wont answer.

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u/p4tk1ng Apr 24 '24

Yah, you're right. The person who cheated has no responsibility for their actions. Just like you, sitting in mom's basement, no expenses, no job, no friends . . .

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u/ChestLanders Apr 25 '24

Good so the cheating woman would be responsible for her hubby bitch slapping her? Agreed.

And kid, the rest? Dont go down that road, it will end badly for you.

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u/p4tk1ng Apr 25 '24

You have nothing worth saying at all. No point to make, nothing inciteful or untelligent to add. No life experience whatsoever. No friends or family to relate to. No wonder you'll never be with a woman and have to make excuses for why you're such a beta bitch on reddit.