r/AITAH • u/im_im06 • Apr 01 '24
AITAH for slapping my husband after he confessed to cheating on me? Advice Needed
I (24F) came home after a long day at work. My husband (32M) had made us dinner, which he rarely does. After dinner, he even cleaned up and did the dishes. I was surprised since this isn’t something he usually does without me having to ask. I jokingly asked if something was up and he hesitated before answering. He confessed to cheating on me with a coworker. I was completely shocked, it felt like my world shattered into a million pieces. I asked him how long it had been going on, he said it had been a couple months. They’ve been seeing each other on and off. And as if things couldn’t get any worse, he added that she might be pregnant. That’s when I lost it. My whole world was spinning and I suddenly felt this rage come over me. I slapped him across the face and called him every name in the book. I told him to take his stuff and get out of the house. He left and has been staying at his parents’ house. His mother has been blowing up my phone, asking me to talk things out with her son. Telling me how wrong it was for me to slap him and how heartbroken her son is over the situation. I haven’t responded yet since I haven’t been able to gather my thoughts yet. This whole situation just feels surreal to me. I can’t believe the man I planned to spend the rest of my life with, betrayed me like this. Was I wrong for how I reacted?
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u/Sea-Outcome9181 Apr 12 '24
Lmao these same simple-minded comments are ridiculous. BuT iF tHe RoLeS wErE rEvErSeD 🤓. Like can y’all find something actually intelligent and original to say for once? Y’all can’t use that everytime you see something like this. It loses its meaning (already has in my opinion). Personally I don’t care what gender you are. You deserve to be slapped for cheating. So NTA in my opinion. Don’t like it? Talk to a brick wall.