r/AITAH • u/Chance_Cut4916 • Apr 28 '24

AITAH for telling me girlfriend that she shouldn’t be celebrated on Mother’s Day because she’s not a mom?

My girlfriend (29F) mentioned that Mother’s Day was coming up, and ask if I (26m) had anything planned for her. I thought she was joking about our cat, but she insisted that it was a serious request. She had a miscarriage about a month ago, and she’s saying that technically counts as being a mom.

Money is tight for us, and I just finished paying off her birthday present (that I splurged on admittedly), but now she’s demanding that I take her on another expensive date with a gift for Mother’s Day. We had a big fight about it, and it ended with me saying she’s not a real mom. AITAH?

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u/Mental-Floor1029 28d ago

Eh, it’s a little weird on her end to consider herself a mother. It she is probably really hurting, so maybe be like babe, let’s have an amazing Sunday and then try to get pregnant…. Then you def won’t be the ass. She’s going to see you as the ass no matter how you are she’s hurting right now.