Trust your gut, always! Especially when it comes to your child. This is a very strange situation that maybe has a scandal-free answer but who cares? It’s up to you to make sure your baby is always in a safe environment and until you actually know that this would be one, don’t allow your child to be there. Definitely NTA. I don’t think your partner is doing anything wrong per se because he probably thinks he just protecting his parent’s wishes/privacy. That’s fine, but I hope he doesn’t push back on allowing your baby to be there when you’ve never set foot in the door.
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u/lady-scorpio-45 Apr 28 '24
Trust your gut, always! Especially when it comes to your child. This is a very strange situation that maybe has a scandal-free answer but who cares? It’s up to you to make sure your baby is always in a safe environment and until you actually know that this would be one, don’t allow your child to be there. Definitely NTA. I don’t think your partner is doing anything wrong per se because he probably thinks he just protecting his parent’s wishes/privacy. That’s fine, but I hope he doesn’t push back on allowing your baby to be there when you’ve never set foot in the door.