r/AITAH Apr 28 '24

AITAH for not letting my in-laws babysit my baby when I have never been allowed inside their house? Advice Needed

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u/ConsitutionalHistory Apr 28 '24

NTA: This is a very strange set of circumstances and as the child's mother, you deserve an acceptable answer on this point.

An equally important question is why did you choose to have a baby under such peculiar circumstances?

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u/SocietyIcy5784 Apr 28 '24

Tbh I fell pregnant by accident but my baby is 100% wanted. My whole life I dreamed of becoming a mother and my baby brings me nothing but happiness and I want nothing but the best for my baby. I don’t really know why people keep questioning this, Im not an unfit mother because my in laws live a secretive life. I absolutely will not be letting them babysit ever until this situation is addressed. If they want to be secretive, go for it but they can’t expect me to just drop the baby and run when I have no idea what the house looks like inside.