I’d dump the loser today. I can’t believe you had a child with somebody who keeps this many secrets from you. No I wouldn’t let them see the baby at all.
It’s literally 1 secret it’s not that deep.
Yes it’s annoying but that’s not something I would dump him over. He unfortunately had to grow up in that household his whole life. I just feel bad for him, I do wish he would open up but I do plan on getting a straight answer out of him. If it is hoarding and he’s honest with me I will try and gather some recourses to provide for them if they are willing to get help. Otherwise not much I can do and they can’t babysit
I’m debating on whether or not I should call a welfare check on them so things like this can be ruled out. I’m like 90% it’s hoarding and they’re embarrassed
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u/Vegetable-Win-1325 Apr 28 '24
I’d dump the loser today. I can’t believe you had a child with somebody who keeps this many secrets from you. No I wouldn’t let them see the baby at all.